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Come As You Are: Revised and Updated: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life
Come As You Are: Revised and Updated: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life
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Empowered Female Desire
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Transform your understanding of intimacy, pleasure, and confidence with the revised and updated edition of Emily Nagoski’s groundbreaking New York Times bestseller, Come As You Are. Hailed as one of the most important books ever written on women’s sexuality, this essential guide blends science, research, and compassionate wisdom to help women reclaim joy in their sex lives.
For much of history, women’s sexuality was overlooked, misunderstood, or ignored by mainstream science. Male-focused studies dominated the field, leaving women’s experiences uncharted and misrepresented. That changed with Emily Nagoski’s pioneering work, which offered a new perspective rooted in groundbreaking research on mindfulness, desire, stress, and pleasure.
At the heart of Come As You Are is a simple yet radical truth: the key to a fulfilling sex life is not about anatomy or performance—it’s about how you feel about yourself, your body, and your experiences. Stress, mood, trust, and body image are not secondary concerns; they are central to sexual well-being. By addressing these factors, Nagoski empowers women to embrace their sexuality with confidence, compassion, and authenticity.
This revised edition includes new insights and up-to-date scientific research that further illuminates the connections between mind, body, and pleasure. With accessible language and relatable examples, Nagoski helps readers navigate common barriers to desire and intimacy, while offering tools to cultivate a more joyful, stress-free, and confident approach to sex.
In Come As You Are, you will discover:
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Why stress, trust, and body image are essential to sexual well-being.
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How mindfulness can transform your relationship with desire and pleasure.
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The truth about sexual response cycles and why “normal” looks different for everyone.
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How to dismantle harmful myths and embrace your unique sexual self.
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Practical strategies for cultivating confidence, connection, and joy.
One of the most powerful aspects of this book is its affirmation that women are already whole. You don’t need to be fixed, changed, or molded to fit outdated sexual expectations—you only need to understand and honor your own body and mind. This empowering message has resonated with countless women worldwide, making Come As You Are a trusted resource for individuals and couples alike.
Whether you are in a long-term relationship, exploring new intimacy, or simply seeking to reconnect with yourself, this book provides the knowledge and tools to create the sex life you’ve always wanted.
Key Benefits of the Revised Edition:
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Updated with the latest science on women’s sexuality and desire.
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Practical, evidence-based strategies for enhancing intimacy and confidence.
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Focus on mindfulness, stress management, and body positivity.
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A compassionate, empowering approach that celebrates women’s sexual wholeness.
Emily Nagoski’s Come As You Are is more than just a book—it’s a movement toward understanding, acceptance, and pleasure. By combining scientific insights with warmth and encouragement, Nagoski offers readers a roadmap to reclaim their sexual well-being and live with confidence, joy, and connection.
Unlock the science of pleasure, embrace your authentic self, and discover why your sexuality is already complete—just as you are.

